As a young child Heem was always a lovely and bubbly character who loved playing outdoors, riding on his bike with his friends and having fun with his sisters.
However we started noticing his eyesight was continuously deteriorating. As a child who started school loving to read stories, he found it harder and harder to read. Every couple of months we would visit a high street opticians who would prescribe him glasses with constantly increasing prescriptions. Eventually he was referred to the local hospital (Birmingham Children Hospital).
After initially not being able to identify why Heem was losing his sight, one consultant diagnosed him with Keratoconus (the lense of the eye is an unusual cone shape). They offered an operation that would freeze his eyesight where it was. Although we were anxious about the operation we felt a sense of relief that his eyesight would not be getting any worse.
According to the hospital the operation was a success but it was just the start of Heem's problems. He was in agony and became very depressed after the operation, having to leave the secondary school he just started. But the worse bit was, the operation made his eyesight worse he went from having enough vision to walk to basically nothing, his life changed forever.
He now can only see the difference between dark and white large objects, he needs a walking cane to go out and about and no longer can do any thing by himself.
It was very difficult time for the whole family. We went from the belief that the operation would be the start of a new beginning to it starting an avalanche of issues.
Living in Birmingham, support was very limited through social services. No one got in touch about providing support or even to find out why he was not in school. Eventually we found him a school for the visually impaired but he struggled, he felt intimidated and isolated from the community and his friends who were all in public schools.
He then had to change school again and we were really lucky to find a school that had a visually impaired unit but was part of a public school. The school was amazing, they taught him how to use the walking cane, how he could use voice services to write and communicate and how he could get back on track with his education.
Heem is now studying in Royal National College (RNC) for the Blind where he has developed his skills even further. He can now participate in blind football, has been taught how to cook using specialist equipment but most importantly he has been taught independent skills so he is less reliant on other people in daily tasks. He has ambitions of going to university and the change from straight after the operation to now is amazing.
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